Thursday, June 16, 2011

Marriage/Divorce


I strongly believe in marriage just as much as i believe in divorce. However, personally, I would never get divorce. I'm sure many people who are divorced now, probably said the same thing, but there is a difference between me and them; I would never marry someone I wouldn't love for the rest of my life. Marriage is a big commitment, and it isn't to be taken lightly. In some ways I have seen both sides, my dad was married 5 times before he met my mom, and my mom was married once (and had two kids) before marrying my dad. I've watched several of my cousins get married, and a few get divorce. When I say I believe in divorce, I only believe it is right if the two people no longer love each other. Some people get divorced because they fight too much or are considered with bills and get stressed so they blame the other. People get married when they love each other, so divorce should only happen if they no longer love the other person. Love is strong enough to endure any fight and endure any amount of money. If you truly love someone, fights won't matter, and the amount of income and disposable money shouldn't matter either. I am a firm believer in people have the right to do whatever they want, without other people getting in their way, or judging them. If someone wants a divorce, I wouldn't tell them that it is not right or try to convince them not to. I'd just accept it as it is, and that would be that. Getting married or divorce is a choice; some people don't have that choice. So it should be taken serious and be given thought, but no one should tell you what to do or how to live your life. Make it your choice, after all that is what it really is: It is YOUR choice.

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